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A few weeks back my wife and I received a letter from someone in the mail who we don’t know personally, but who knows someone else we know. Apparently this individual became aware that my wife and I were “not saved” and felt compelled to send us a letter. She asked that we read it to the end (which we did), and that if we got nothing from it we should wad it up and throw it away. I’ll say this – we certainly got something from the letter – but I’m sure it wasn’t what she was hoping we would get. What follows is the letter, though I’ve made an effort to conceal the identity of the person by changing names, places, jobs, etc. I’ve included the letter in its entirety to show that my comments that follow after it are not mischaracterizing or misconstruing what she had written.

You don’t know me but I know Mark and Carol. My name is Margaret Smith and I am sending this letter to share a little of my story with you for no other reason. All I ask is that you read it to the end… after that wad it up and throw it away if you get nothing from it.

My husband and I raised our children as most couples do. We tried very hard to teach children respect for themselves and others and to take pride in working hard and being honest. Our kids were in 4-H and, as parents, John and I were very involved. We served on the 4-H council, we were administrative leaders for our club and I was a co-superintendent for the pig project at the county fair. Our kids also played hockey and we spent many weekends in hotels and on the road to games and tournaments. We had a small flock of goats and raised a few lamas, pigs, and chickens. The kids worked hard taking care of them, and we have some wonderful memories. Our lives were pretty much centered on raising our children to become responsible productive adults and we thought we did a pretty good job.

Both John and I worked 40+ hours per week and we were able to provide for our family fairly well. Time went by and our children graduated from high school and proceeded on to college. For reasons that you will understand later I’m going to concentrate mostly on Tommy [their son] from this point on.

Tommy attended the lawful citizen academy before he graduated from high school and followed in his father’s footsteps by becoming an auxiliary EMS and a member of the Army National Guard. He worked with a small township ambulance company for around 4 years. He attended college and received his associates degree  before transferring to a large university. He graduated with honors in 2000 with a bachelor’s degree in criminal justice. When he returned home he became a full-time police officer with the city department. Tommy had a heart of gold and never met a stranger. He worked very hard and had his whole life ahead of him. He was engaged to his high school sweetheart and they were set to be married in August of 2002.

All of his plans changed on May 15, 2001. The spring of 2001 had been very warm. One of his friends from the police department decided to put their dock in early and Tommy and a few others took the day to help him. They had spent the majority of that day working on the dock and drinking. Tommy fell asleep at the wheel on the way home that night and crossed over the center line. He hit another car head on and he and the 2 teenagers in the other care were killed instantly. Our life fell apart. As hard as it was to go on without Tommy, there was one thing that was even harder. You see, Tommy had never been baptized and I did not know whether or not he had accepted Jesus Christ as his personal savior. When they came to our door that night to tell us that Tommy would never be coming home again the first thing that I thought was, “is he going to go to heaven?” We thought we had done a wonderful job raising our children but we had neglected to do the ONE thing that would make the most difference in their lives. Although we had sporadically attended a church here and there, and I had talked to them a little about God, we had not properly introduced them to our Savior Jesus Christ and taught them HIS word. And for Tommy, it was too late! It has been 12 years and for those 12 years I have been filled with regret. There is nothing I can do to change it now.

Local Community Church and all of my wonderful brothers and sisters in Chist have helped me understand that God loves me and I am forgiven through the blood that Jesus Christ shed for me on the cross, but what about Tommy? All I can do is pray that God will not hold my mistake against my son and that somewhere along the road he accepted Jesus Christ as his personal savior and asked for forgiveness for his sins.

I just wanted to share this with you. I pray that you never suffer the loss of a child, but more importantly, I pray that if you do you will never have to struggle with regret about whether or not they were saved. God put it on my heart that I send this to you. You may throw it away and never think of it again or do whatever you wish with it. I just felt the need to share my story with you. May God bless ou and your family.

Love in Christ, Margaret Smith

Poison.

Christianity is a poison to this woman and she calls it a medicine, and encourages my wife and I to drink it down too. Not only that, but she wants me to feed it to my children. Now, I’ve been accused of being an emotionless scientific robot before, but I’m going to have a bit of an emotional response here… I would have to be completely out of my fricking mind to teach my children to embrace a system of belief that has lead to this woman being filled with that sort of regret for the last 12 years of her life!!!

Why in the heck would I indoctrinate my kids to believe something that brings about a constant state of emotional and mental turmoil for this woman??? She raises her children to to be honest, respectful, hard-working individuals – and by her account her son was this – and the god she said she loves and serves is going to toss him into a burning lake of fire because he didn’t believe the right thing, or say the right magical prayer of repentance before he died??? What’s the harm in Christianity???? It’s right here!!!! It’s bad enough this poor woman loses her son, but now she gets to spend the rest of her life tormented by the thought of her son burning in hell forever, and if she’s right – watching him burn in hell forever!!!! Jesus – “the god who loves you so much that he made hell just in case you don’t love him back!”

I pity this woman more than you can know. I feel so terribly bad for her – both for losing her son – and for having to endure the constant feelings of guilt because she didn’t teach him to love the cosmic Hitler that she believes has tossed him into an oven that never stops burning. I’m glad that all of the evidence points to that god as not existing, but if he did, he’d be one more monstrous dictator worth standing up to and fighting against.

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